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About the Book

The Unconscious Rules in Love explores how our past determines our future when it comes to the partners we pick and the relationships we have. Our “unconsciously on purpose” choices play a part in the scenarios we repeat, the identifications we project, and the communication we have. And while we can’t change the past, we can react differently in the present in a way that will affect, improve and often resolve our relationships in the future. Sea turtles don’t need group therapy, as they are a species that don’t know their parents. But the rest of us can benefit from group therapy, often more than from individual therapy. A group can provide progressive emotional communication that is one of the keys to finding and keeping a happy and healthy love relationship.

Dr. Robert S. Pepper specializes in analytically oriented group and couple therapy. He has been running groups for 45 years and has a special gift in helping members resolve conflicts with relationships, both personal and professional. He has published more than 35 professional articles, speaks often at conferences, teaches at the college level, and is the author of Some People Don’t Want What They Say They Want: 100 Unconventional Interventions in Group Therapy and Emotional Incest in Group Psychotherapy: A Conspiracy of Silence. Dr. Pepper resides in the New York City area.