I found “The Unconscious Rules in Love” both helpful and interesting. It explores ways in which our pasts inform our choice of partner unconsciously, ways we can identify our role in difficulties within love relationships, and ideas for moving forward toward health and connection. Dr. Pepper explores issues of control, need, decisions, and emotional intimacy within relationships, and common fears relationships face such as engulfment, vulnerability, impulse control, and abandonment. He offers valuable suggestions for how we can choose to move away from repeating unhelpful patterns and ultimately improve our relationships. I highly recommend this book to anyone seeking deeper insights into their relational dynamics and personal growth!.Amazon Review