To The Editor: While it was heartening to read that group therapy helped the author resolve her tendency to select inappropriate men in her romantic life, as a group therapist  I have a professional responsibility to let the general reader know that not all group therapists blur the line between therapy and not therapy. In fact, my research has shown that for some group members, blurring that boundary can be over-stimulating.Freud believed that the cure was achieved through the resolution of the transference neurosis. However, when the boundary is blurred between therapy and not therapy, the door is open for the enactment of the uncontrolled transference and countertransference, which in this case seems to be of the eroticized variety (she idealized him and she was his favorite). Although the others coached her on dates with men, I wondered if her special status had any negative impact on her relationships with her group siblings? I also wondered if gratification trumped analysis. Could it be that the author and her therapist enacted their ‘crush’ on each other?